Stop Fighting and Live Your Soul Challenge

This week I worked with individuals who speak the Soul Languages of the Deliberator, the Passage Inventor, the Diplomat, the Evolver, and the Heart Conscious.

What I learned from my experiences this week while working with them was that an hour can change your life, just by changing your perception. All of these individuals had the following things in common:

• they have studied many years in their areas of expertise
• they are well into their journey, not just starting it
• they are aware of who they are
• they are open to understanding and feel there is always more to know

These individuals are just like YOU. Everything you need to know is inside of you. What happened in our work together is that they realized they have been only half-listening to their Souls; that as their lives grew, they didn't adapt their ways. They have since chosen to connect more consciously with their Souls.

Each day is a chance to shred the layers of limiting beliefs, other people’s perceptions of you, and your own fears, in order to bring forth the talents of your Soul.

I do not know anyone who is 100% of the time without any doubt, without any limiting beliefs, and totally filled with 100% JOY. Even though I know several individuals that speak the Soul Language of the Sun, who by nature see the sunny side of the street—these individuals can see the beauty in mud (I also happen to think mud is really beautiful, but you understand my point here), and even they feel doubt and fear.

If anybody tells you they don’t, they are not being truthful to themselves.

It is (get ready for this) alright to have doubt and fear. Doubt and fear will grow larger when you are in transition. Since we are all expanding, transition can be happening for you on a daily basis. The emotion of fear can be excellent fuel for change and for empowerment.

When you nurture the exploration of your Soul, it results in the following manifestations:

• belief
• confidence
• trust
• faith
• leadership
• prosperity
• integrity
• Soulful living
• conscious capitalism

Are you ready to live from your soul and stop fighting yourself? I know you are! I can feel it from you and from the planet. We are ready to take up the challenge. So here it is:

For one week spend one hour (30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes at night) consciously connecting with your Soul Languages.

Imagine spending an hour a day listening to what you have to say about you. Imagine spending an hour listening to what the Universe has to say about you.

If you haven't had your Soul Languages Identified, then just connect with your Soul and listen. This also might be a great opportunity to take me up on my complimentary 15 minute session, where one of your Languages will be identified.

I will blog about what happens during my hour, and please let me know what happens in your life about yours via your blog or the Soul Language Community!

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

Transition - Can Feel As If You Are Dancing Alone

Dear Jen:
When you are going through transition it can be a very scary time or it can be a very sacred time. The choice is really up to you.

Love,
Your Soul

For those of us that are going through transition, it could be very annoying to hear that. Somebody once said it to me and my reaction was, "Great, are you going to tell me how to get to the sacred place? Because I'm really afraid and I'm really not loving this." And to be totally honest, I’ve left out a couple of my favorite curse words.

The key to getting from scary to sacred is surrender, or acceptance. To my Graceful Warrior Language, these sound like very, very dirty words. How many times have you read, heard, been told (via Soul or another person) to just let go? How many times have I written those words in my blogs, my newsletter, or on the Soul Language community site? Definitely hundreds, maybe thousands.

As I accepted my transition and stopped fighting it, several things became very clear to me. I realized that transition was the next leap toward knowing my Soul, and that it would help me guide people more in understanding their Souls.

I’m moving from something big to something global. Even if there are times where it feels as if I'm dancing alone in a crowd, I know that people are starting to tap their feet and soon they will start dancing with me.

As you begin to accept your transition you can create the action steps and strategies that will serve your purpose. The only way to get there is by exploring your Soul.

For today, spend sometime listening to what your Soul desires. You can do this by tapping into your Soul Languages and asking questions like:

• what does my Axiom of Quest desire to live Soulfully?
• what does my Axiom of Translation desire to be more joyful?
• what does my Tone desire to be more accepting?

If you haven't had your Soul Languages Identified, ask yourself how your Soul communicates with you. Then spend sometime doing just that. It could be writing, dancing, drawing, meditating, or just being. There is no wrong or right way to create a conscious connection with your Soul.

Set your fear aside by imaging a large bowl and dumping all that fear into the bowl, or by writing all your fears on a piece of paper and then ripping it up. I'm suggesting you set those fears aside for just 5 minutes and listen to your Soul.

The difference between scared and sacred is the placement of two letters! Just two letters.


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Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

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Closing the Gap of Contradiction - Between What You Want to Do and What You Are Doing

Every week, my sweet friend Sandra provides me with her already read People magazine, I know that sometime over the next day or two, I'm going to set aside 20 minutes to read and just be me! What naturally happens because I give myself this wonderful time to just be me, a Soul discovery happens.

This week's discovery is thanks to Sandra, magazine, and Andre Agassi.

I was reading about his new book. This line jumped out at me from the page, "I keep begging myself to stop, and I keep playing, and this gap, this contradiction between what I want to do and what I actually do..."

Another way to put what Agassi is trying to say here is transition. This is the period of time where you are working out the want and the doing. This tip is directed toward the gap of contradiction.

This tip is to help you determine why you are not taking action on the desires of your Soul (the wants). A good sign that you are not living Soulfully, is that you are unhappy, not getting what you desire, and feel unsatisfied.

1. Determining the WHAT
This week I asked a client: "Do you know what your Soul wants?" The answer I received really puzzled me. She said that she didn't understand the question. You might not know what you truly desire. You might have a sense of what you don't want so we are going to start there. Write down four things in your life currently that you would like to release. For example: I don't want to be living hand to mouth. Now, change those negatives to positive sentences. I desire a flow of money and abundance.

2. Enforcing those WHATS
Take those four examples and write down what you are doing to enforce those new positive attitudes. Having trouble? Are you seeing the contradiction, see the GAP? If you are doing things, having thoughts, making steps to enforce your new attitudes, great! Your next step is to keep rocking!

3. Closing the Gap of Contradiction
Just take one of those new attitudes and settle into your Soul and ask how you release the contradiction. You could close the Gap by spending a moment each day in gratitude or by spending some time each day dancing. DO NOT judge the information from your Soul, it is profound and powerful.

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

The Soul and Language of Money

A couple of weeks ago I was with my sister-in-law at a fair and we passed a psychic's booth. The line was around the corner and I smiled to myself. I knew at least one question that each person would ask on that line and no, I wasn't using my spidey sense.

The number one question people ask is about MONEY. And yet, the question isn't really about money at all—it’s about receiving, trusting in your self-worth, and believing that you deserve it.

You have created a relationship with MONEY. The thing about this relationship is that it is basically one-sided. I recently worked with an amazing man who spoke the Tone Language of Heart Consciousness. Here is an individual so filled with love and so willing to give, but without the foundation to thrive. Why doesn’t he have it? He doesn't feel worthy of receiving all that love back.

When I was little, my father gave me a shiny new penny. I ran from the bedroom to the kitchen to show my money. I never made it. I fell and cracked my head open and had to be rushed to the hospital to get 11 stitches. From that experience, I chose to associate money with pain.

For a long time, I would get money and subconsciously wait for the pain. If no pain was to be found, I would create it. When I started my own business I often undervalued myself to avoid this imaginary pain, not asking for what I was worth.

The first step toward creating a healthy and prosperous relationship with money is to understand what essence you have given it. Take a moment and set the intention to connect with your Tone Soul Language. If you don't know your Tone, set the intention to connect with that part of you called Tone. Take a deep breath and feel the answer to the question below.

In one word or in one image, what is your relationship with money?

Now that you know where you’re starting from, you can build on it—or you can create a new and more positive relationship with money.

Now, take a deep breathe and feel the answer to this question:

What is the first step to receiving the abundance I desire?

This is your chance to move forward in a new relationship with money. If you find that you need help with that first step, ask and you shall receive.

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

3 Ways to Release The Past

Recently, I had an experience that reminded me that our past, and how we feel about it, is mainly due to our perceptions.

You can utilize your Soul Languages to help you reframe or rewrite your past. This will help you let go of challenges and limiting beliefs that are preventing you from achieving what you desire. Imagine all the buds that were not able to open because of your holding onto a past situation.

3 Ways to Release The Past

1. Do you know what you know?
Often we believe we know what a person is thinking and feeling. Unless you have heard it straight from that person's mouth, do not assume. We have often developed an entire story of a situation in our lives without really knowing the

2. Why are you keeping yourself on the merry-go-round?
Notice if you keep reliving a situation in your mind again and again. Let's find out why. Take a deep breath and allow your awareness to sink into your tailbone. Set the intention to connect with your Tone Soul Language (if you don't know your Tone, set the intention to speak to that part of your Soul that is the Tone Language) and ask this part of you, "By reliving this situation in your head, what are you trying to do differently?"
3. Ask yourself how to let go
Yes, we are back to letting go! I have given you several tools to let go of a situation. If you can't seem to let go of the situation, here a question to ask yourself. "What are you afraid of that is preventing you from letting go?"

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

Hello, My Name Is...

Whenever I go to a workshop or a networking event and they ask me to fill out that name tag that says, "Hello, My Name is...," I cringe. By lunchtime that name tag will have moved from my shirt to inside my purse.

Why do I dislike the name badge so much? It really doesn't tell you a lot about who I am, what I do and what my purpose is here in life. Erin Saxton and I the other night were discussing our one-liner, or elevator speech. Erin is an amazing human being and a cracker-jack public relations professional. If you don't know her yet, you want to.

She asked me how I do my elevator speech. I told her that it’s simple, I let my Soul Languages do it for me. Then I helped her create hers.

Erin is a Master Mentor with Mind and Spirit. She said that really resonated with her. Of course, because her Soul Languages are Master (Axiom of Translation), Mentor (Axiom of Quest) and Intellect (Tone).

You too can create a one-liner that states to everyone who you are. Here's how to craft it:

• Determine three words that describe each of your Languages. For example: if your Axiom of Quest is Matriarch, some words to describe that Language are: leader, CEO, or Principal. If your Axiom of Translation is Pleasure Seeker, some words to describe that Language include: joyful, bliss, pleasure. If your Tone is Conductor you can describe that Language with: Highlights, Bring to Light, Shine.
• Now arrange those words into a one-liner that resonates with you. An example for the above Languages is: Leader Who Highlights Joy or CEO Who Brings to Light the Ability to be Blissful.
• How does it feel when you say your one-liner? Great, right?

You can start to use these words and the one-liner in your business materials. Now when I go to a workshop or networking event, instead of “Jennifer Urezzio” I write: A Teacher of Integrity, Balance and Grace. That feels amazing to say, be and live!

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

Let Love Open The Door

Often when we have fears about moving on to our next level we try to start controlling the process. Fear and control can shut many doors for us that were beginning to open. This can make us feel unsupported by others, territorial, overwhelmed, or even resentful. Those feelings will start to generate physical manifestations.

As a leader you can accept your new position in the world—in your life, your business and your community—with Grace. It usually doesn't have to be as hard as you are making it. I trust that we as humans learn from experience, but we sometimes assume that an experience has to involve great suffering in order for us to understand it.

Right here and right now let that belief go. If each one of us lets our part in that belief go, I can only image the impact it will have on the world.

One of the first steps toward accepting your new leadership role with Grace is to create a conscious connection with your Axiom of Translation. In creating this connection, you can receive guidance from this part of your Soul. Remember, your Soul is there for you 24/7.

The Axiom of Translation is the Language category that expresses how your Soul chooses to act out your mission here. It is the movement of your Soul's agenda or mission. So here's how it works: my mission is to be an Equalizer (Axiom of Quest). I create balance in myself and others by taking steps to teach, learn, act and be in integrity—Teacher of Integrity is my Axiom of Translation.

One more example is an individual who is a Pioneer (Axiom of Quest). A Pioneer forges new roads and territories. In this example, this individual also speaks the Axiom of Translation Language known as the Purveyor. They are completing their Soul's agenda or mission to create new roads by securing and providing all the "things" that it takes to create that new road—this is the Language of the Purveyor in action.

Another way of understanding the Axiom of Translation is to listen to the words you and others choose to describe you. A great example of this is someone who speaks the Axiom of Translation of Nurturer. People will often describe these people as givers, as nurturing, etc.

So how can the Axiom of Translation help you accept this new leadership position? Simply by asking this part of your Soul some questions and listening, it will help you come up with a strategy to accept your new power level.

First ground and center yourself, what I call settling in. Take a deep breath and ask these intelligent questions to the part of your Soul that is the Axiom of Translation (if your Languages haven't been identified yet, just set the intention to direct the questions to that part of your Soul): Where are you judging your leadership abilities? What is the first step toward letting go of these judgments?

When we are in judgment we are out of love for ourselves. When we are out of love for ourselves we will often close many doors that could have made our transition easier and more joyful. So let love open the door!

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

Learn the Keys of Grace to Create Time

Time is a human invention. The Universe doesn't see time as we do. To the Universe, time is circular—like the band of gold in this Keys of Grace affirmation card.

Often we can get caught up in our own conception of time. Some of us live in the past, others live in the future, but miracles are happening here in the present. We have constructed these illusions about time and we can deconstruct them.

This affirmation card is about choosing your own time. Do you live in the past or the future and forget about the present? Most of us wear time like this band around our finger, instead of seeing the unlimited possibilities.

The key is to understand what is preventing you from seeing that time is unlimited. Feel the answer within you. Once you understand that time is without limits, you will be in full bloom like the canopy of the tree in this Key of Grace card.

Try repeating the affirmation on this card, which is both simple and profound: "I have time in my Universe."

Edward Abbey put it beautifully: "We are preoccupied with time. If we could learn to love space as deeply as we are now obsessed with time, we might discover a new meaning in the phrase to live like men."

Here's the chance to discover a new meaning of time for yourself.

The Keys of Grace affirmation deck is an easy way to connect to guidance. If you are interested in purchases a deck click here.

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Your Soul Is There for You 24/7

I've been trying to consciously listen to the messages of Divine Intelligence. Recently, while listening to one of my mentors speak during a class she was teaching, I heard her say, "Your Soul is there for you 24/7." That thought was so profound to me. I wondered, where am I shutting off access to my Soul? It can be overwhelming to people to understand the concept that you are loved and supported 24/7. Take an entire minute to look around and notice the love and support. For this minute, don't focus on what you want to change. Focus on what has already been provided to you.

Impressed? I am! You can build on that love and support by accepting your value, then you will start receiving more.

One of the main ways people block receiving is via money. I have heard from several members in the Soul Language Community that they feel pressure when receiving money while doing the work of their Soul. Here are some of their comments:

Does it always need to be about the money?

How can I ask for money for something that comes so easy to me?

I don't want to sell anyone anything.

It's not about the MONEY. Once again, it's not about the MONEY! It's about receiving support. Receiving compensation for the talents of your Soul is one way the Universe can physically love and support you, and you get to decide what that compensation looks like.

When you feel unsupported, unloved, without trust, confused, unhappy, or lost—that’s the time to create that conscious connection between yourself and your Soul. When a store is open 24/7, they don’t call it a convenience store by accident.

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

Learn How To Accept The Hero Inside of You

You are a hero. It is only when you accept that you are the hero of your own life that you will live without the day-to-day struggle. One of the things that keeps us from recognizing ourselves as our own hero is that we spend a lot of time comparing ourselves to others.

Just for a moment, imagine if Wonder Woman or Superman spent all of their time comparing themselves to BirdGirl or Batman. It would hold these heroes back, not only from carrying out their own mission but also from enjoying a life of purpose.

What are your heroic qualities? Some of these qualities or talents can be brought to your consciousness more easily by understanding your Soul Languages. My mission here, for example, is to be an Equalizer. My heroic qualities are the ability to create balance and restore equilibrium. Isn't that what Wonder Woman does?

Take a minute today to consciously connect with your Soul Language, category Axiom of Quest. If your Languages haven't yet been identified, just set the intention to contact with that part of your Soul that is the Axiom of Quest, your mission here. Now, ask the intelligent question:

What is one of my hero qualities?

What did you hear? Did you judge the information that you received at all? Allow yourself to feel your hero quality without judgment. From this place you can create the life you desire, whether that is a desire for more money, more supportive relationships, or a deeper connection with the Universe.

If you are interested in releasing judgment, click here to receive your complimentary audio on the subject.

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Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

Do You Feel You Are Not Enough?

The Soul Language community is growing on a daily basis. What I hear again and again in one way or another from even the most amazing leaders in their fields is “I'm not enough.”

It is amazing how many ways we are programmed not to shine. One of the ways we use to turn down our lights is judgment. An associate said to me this week, "I don't judge others, I'm just hard on myself."

My reaction was immediate: “so you just continually hurt the most important person in your life, yourself?” If you are always judging yourself as not good enough, and your word is law (Law of Attraction), then you will never receive enough.

What does the world get out of you dimming any part of your light or talent? Nothing. What are you receiving? Not what you want.

Another client said recently, after she started receiving the life she wanted—expansion in her business, supportive relationships, fun and the right kind of men knocking down her door—that she was afraid. Of what? She was afraid "that it all could be that easy!" But it can.

She got there because she was able to more fully utilize her Soul and release the limiting beliefs that were in the way of her receiving what she desired.

In order to receive all of want you want you must feel in every cell your value and the truth: you deserve it. The first step is of course to release judgment.

The next step is to collaborate with your Soul Languages and your body to feel your value from head to toe. So are you ready?

Let's do an exercise to get you started. Take a deep breathe and focus on your tailbone. Now ask Divine Intelligence and your Soul to show you in your body what your value feels like.

Feels great! What can you do and create from this place?

To listen How to Stop Judging and Fighting with Yourself and Choose Success audio just click here.

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

3 Ways to Be Self-Aware

Taking care of yourself is the easiest way to unconditionally love yourself. Being self-aware and in alignment helps you create instant manifestation. So here's to taking care of YOU!

1. Eat, drink and be merry Respect your body by giving it all that it needs. That means eating the right foods that help mind, body and spirit.

2. Feed the Soul Each day do something that feeds your Soul. Don't know what feeds your Soul? Take a moment and connect with your Axiom of Quest and simply ask what is the one thing you can do each day to feed your spirit. Don't know your Axiom of Quest yet? Simply set the intention to connect with that part of you and ask the question above.

3. Spend time with the ones you love Set aside time for you to spend with friends that make you laugh until you cry. Laughter is good for both the Soul and the body. Plus, being around all of that positive energy will allow you to make choices that support your desires.

Be Conscious * Be Connected * Be Soul * Be Successful

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to be accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and be a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

Are You Completing Your Story Before It Even Begins?

I was sitting at a coffee shop in Morristown. At least once a week you will find me in one of the several coffee shops we have around town, because I find that just leaving the house gives the Universe a number of ways to send you messages. As I sat there drinking my coffee, a message for me pulled up in a red minivan.

A man was trying to park it in a space half the size of the vehicle. I looked up and dismissed him as being plain and of no interest (oh yes, that is a judgment). It took him a couple of minutes to move the van into place and when I looked up again, he was just walking around the front of the car and I had to work hard to keep a straight face.

This was no plain man, ladies and gentlemen. He was dressed in a white zoot suit with red shoes and a red and white hat to match. He looked like he had just stepped out of a 1930s gangster movie with all the class, style and grace.

This tall, lanky man, looking as if he were on his way to a swing dance, started me thinking. How often do we complete the story of what's going to happen to us before we have all the information? How often do we judge who will win the race before it has even started?

I believe that these judgments of how things are going to turn out, so often negative and self-destructive, come from a lack of trust in ourselves that we are worthy to receive what we desire and deserve. The question is, who are you not trusting: yourself, others, the universe? How do you create that trust inside yourself so that what you desire starts to materialize in your life?

Over the last couple of months, I have been playing with trust. In other words, I have been testing the Universe, myself and others. Here's what I have learned: testing is not trusting. Testing is not allowing yourself to receive. When I felt my value, let go of judgment, and trusted that what I have to offer is of value to the world, that is when I started to be open to what the Universe has to offer me.

What were some of the physical manifestation of my trusting? I found people to help me take what I do to the next level. I also found the freedom to make some choices to participate in workshops to expand myself and stopped worrying. The release of worry is life changing—I lost weight and I both look and feel younger.

I suggest that you notice where you are testing and not trusting. Then I want you to PAUSE and determine what you get to let go of so you can choose trust.

Interested in learning more about what is preventing you from accepting your value? Participate in the complimentary class on October 13th at 7:00 p.m. by clicking here.

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3 Ways to Accept Your Talent

Can you look in the mirror and see your talent, your body and your Soul? If the answer is no, now is the time to see your Soul!

1. It's easy
Often we miss our talent because we have a belief that it has to be hard. What comes easy to you? Teaching others how to create that conscious connection with their Soul comes easy to me. My talent is to help you to understand your Soul. I know that helping you have more impact and accept your value is priceless. Determine what comes easy to you and accept your value. We all deserve to be compensated for our talents.

2. You have the right!
You don't need anyone's permission to be your Soulful, talented self. Let go of the need for validation. See where this need for validation is stopping you from receiving what you have been asking for.

3. Play with your people
In truth, when you accept your talents, not all of your current relationships will be able to keep up with you. That's OK! You will find new friends, clients and associates to play with. These people will want and need your Soul's gifts. They will also have gifts that you will desire to play with as well.

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What Can Accepting Your Success Do For You?

It has been almost a week since the first Success Support Program group class and what is happening in the community is astounding.

The individuals that speak the Language of the Matriarch as a group seem to be really coming out of hiding. One Matriarch has started her own online community for leaders, while another is expressing her wants and desires fully and clearly.

What is happening across the board for the group, is that each member is receiving the opportunity to accept who they are and start receiving.

What has accepting my success done for me? I created a program that over 30 people are part of, my business is expanding and I propel out of bed every morning excited.

So what can accepting success do for you? For a minute, I want you to imagine what that feels like for you. It feels great doesn't it.

Now ask yourself what talents do you have in your Soul that will allow you to accept your success. One last question, what additional tools to you need to start living that success?

Set the intention to receive all of the tools you need to start living your success.

Interested in understanding more about your Soul, join the free class on October 13th at 7:00 p.m. (eastern) by clicking here.


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Is Your Judgment Keeping You From Your Success?

I have noticed that when an individual is getting ready for a big, big breakthrough, the voices of doubt can become louder than usual.

Leaders and leaders in training are use to going it alone, always giving love and support but often have trouble receiving it. On that grand scale, things can be a little overwhelming.

It made me think about how the hardest thing for people to accept is LOVE. By not accepting love—love of the Universe, the balanced love of supportive relationships, love for yourself—are you setting yourself up for failure?

Are you:

• comparing yourself to others?
• judging whether your life is moving at the pace you’d like?
• punishing yourself for mistakes you think you have made?
• feeling that you are not worthy of the love of the Universe?
• always in giving mode, judging yourself when you want something?

I believe people often see success as validation of their value. They try to get successful by doing, doing, doing. Success starts inside, at the cellular level. Every part of you needs to know how successful you are being YOU. Only then will your outside world reflect that.

Judgment is the easiest road to failure. It's time to start using the tools of your Soul to express love to yourself, to forgive yourself, and to feel how successful you are.


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Missing Your Community Because You Are Focusing On Getting It Right

I read an interesting line in a book the other day (it was a mystery; I don't read anything but fiction), "...I was so focused on getting it right, that I wasn't paying attention to my feelings...."

I stopped and grabbed a pen and paper. I had to write it down. What I noticed about certain Soul Languages (Image Maker, Teacher of Integrity, Arranger, Mortar Maker) is that they can be so focused on getting everything so perfect that their community has drifted off or they are unable to receive their community.

What do feelings have to do with this? Plenty! Recently, I attended an amazing event held by Christine Clifton called Move Your Power! One of her handouts included a list of emotions.

If you are experiencing fear, anger, disappointment, exhaustion, depression (to name a few) when creating a program, package, a relationship, or a partnership, well this is a sign that you are out of alignment with what you are creating. As a leader or a leader in training, if you are worried, concern, anxious about being perfect, you will miss connecting and speaking to your community. A leader without a community is like a fish out of water.

How do you get back in your zone? You need to understand what your zone feels like. I work with the members of my community to show them using their Soul Languages, how to place their body in a feeling of working consciously and without doubt. What does that feel like? Well to me, it feels like driving with the top down on a sunny September day. A sense of freedom, of lightness, of abundance, of knowing (and here's the important part) and acting who you are.

In order for you to receive your community (or build your community), it is important you don't use perfection as an excuse to hide from them. We will be discussing this topic further, during the Success Support Membership Program.


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3 Ways to Lead Your Community

As a leader of a community (or a leader in training), you need to understand:

• your commitment to your community
• your goal for yourself in this community
• the purpose of the community
• what tools you are providing to your community
• where you need your own support from outside the community

Put it in Writing
It is important that both you and your community know your commitment to the group, so take the time to place this commitment in writing. Most of us don't write it down because we are afraid of responsibility. When you write it down you are saying, this is what my intentions are and I am accepting that power in myself to lead.

Find the Common Purpose
Take a moment to be still and ask Soul what is the common purpose of your community. Then select a couple of community members and ask the same question. This is so you can see and understand how you and your community views your common purpose.

Act the Leader
One of the most important aspects of leading is understanding when you need outside input in regards to your community. Leaders can sometimes feel as if they cannot be vulnerable or feel the need to know everything about everything. That is not leading; that is called a dictatorship. Each day ask what you need as a leader for yourself and for your community.

If you are a leader or a leader in training, the Success Support Program will provide you with tools to: find your community, support your community and feel the support you desire.

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Are You Asking Yourself Where Is My Community?

The clinch is true, no man is an island. We, especially leaders or leaders in training, wrestle with the desire to be an individual and have a community or tribe. If you are a leader or a leader in training there is an intense desire within you to:

• know and have a community or tribe
  
• to help give this community or tribe the tools to accomplish what they desire
  
• to feel supported (financially, spiritual, mentally and emotionally) while being the leader of this community or tribe
• to be recognize for your individualism

There are several Soul Languages that leadership is within their Soul DNA. A couple of these Languages that include leadership in their Soul Language definition are: Matriarch/Patriarch, Conductor, Sovereign, and Sheppard.

If your Soul is one that yearns for a community and you don't understand how to go about generating that community or tribe, read on!

Recently, I was speaking with a Matriarch (Soul Language category dealing with mission) and she was expressing how she understood this leadership talent within her Soul and yet, was frustrated that her community was no way to be found. My next question to her was a simple one: "How many people follow you on Twitter?" The answer is: 1,100. That's more individuals that were in my high school. So that brings us to strategy to seeking your community.

Your Community Is Right In Front Of You
I'm all for intention, focusing and asking the Universe exactly what you want. You have to understand that sometimes, even if you are thinking you are being clear to the Universe, the Universe might not see it the same way.

My suggestion is to make a list of all the individuals you know and write down the three things they all have in common. Is the common theme with these individuals something you have already master (leader)? Is it a theme that you are currently mastering (leader in training)? Did you notice a theme about your community that you were unaware of?

During a session with an individual who speaks the Soul Language of Sovereign (Soul Language category dealing with personality), we were discussing her career and her desire to connect with her community. She was mentioning that the current reporting, she is an on-air fashion expert, wasn't meaty enough for her. She has an desire to help others transform their lives and the reporting was too surface for her. I remarked that this material seemed to be starving her emotionally, spiritual, mentally, and physically (financially). We discussed ways to begin to connect with to her community with material that she could really sink her teeth into. That brings us to another strategy in seeking your community or tribe.

Don't Water Down Your Passion
Be passionate about what you are providing. Think of passion as a tool to clear paths, blocks and restrictions. Often we can make our lives more complicated then they need to be. If you have lost site of your passion, we will be discussing how to keep passion on track during a group class in the on-going Know Soul's Language Success Support Program.

Above are just some of the strategies for creating or generating your community. Remember, this community or tribe search can be an easy fluid process or it can be a process of struggle, that decision is up to you.






There are several Soul Languages that are geared towards leadership, one of these is the Matriarch/Patriarch Soul Language.

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Learn The Keys of Grace and Liberate Your Emotion

This past week I was speaking with a friend, who was experiencing some feelings of anger and she was looking for an answer on what to do about these feelings. She picked up The Keys of Grace affirmation cards and selected The Child Queen (see visual). This card's focusing words are: Liberate Your Emotion. What I love about using a tool like this is, if you are having trouble hearing that inner wisdom, it allows you to tap into it with a flip of the cards.

Often we will use the tool of anger when we don't fully understand something in our lives. Ask yourself, what situation you do you not understand fully and what emotion are you using to process that situation (anger, sadness, frustration)?

Free (or liberate) your emotion. No queen or king can move forward with the weight of anger or self-loathing. The moment your child understands that anger is not the answer, but a symptom of the pain, that is the moment of your coronation.

The affirmation for this card is: I AM AT PEACE. Isn't it time that you moved towards peace and away from anger.

I believe that Marshall B. Rosenberg said it with elegance, "At the core of all anger is a need that is not being fulfilled."

Here's to fulfilling your need. The Keys of Grace affirmation deck can be purchased by clicking here.

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How Do You Know Who You Are?

In The Keys of Grace cards, one of the visuals that was giving me the most trouble explaining the visual to Caren was the card The Magdalene. One day, I walked into Caren's art studio and there on her painting easel was a painting that was so beautiful that I knew it was the visual for The Magdalene. It was Caren's self portrait. The painting fit so beautiful with the meaning of this card which is all about understanding and accepting who you are. This card is about loving every aspect of you. The focusing words for the card is: Accepting Power. Where are you not accepting the power of YOU?

Today, is the day you can start loving yourself more by accepting YOU. I suggest you saying the affirmation on this card aloud: I know who I am.

According to Yoda, there is "only what you take with you." So today, take the power of you along for the ride.

If you are interested in tapping into your inner wisdom a perfect tool is The Keys of Grace affirmation deck. You can pre-order a copy here.

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Do You Need A Soul Vacation?

Last week, I was in Florida with my mother on vacation. I needed a cation from the everyday so I could reconnect with ME! I read six books (all fun fiction), swam, sat in the sun, and played cards.

I often view the Soul as a creative mass of energy. This energy needs time to pause in between of bursts of genius. Being on vacation made me think of times where I could use a little Soul vacation to help the creative process. I got to thinking on how to create this Soul vacation without utilizing vacation days. I also wanted to make sure I capitalize on the recent re-energizing downtime. For inspiration, on how to craft this exercise, I tapped into the Soul Language -- Creator. These individuals will be known here for the ability to breathe into existence something that has never been in existence before.

Below is one of the exercises that connecting with the energy of this Soul Language generated. It is called: Take a Walk in Your Garden Please note that the exercise takes 30 seconds and read the exercise before conducting.

Settle into a comfortable chair and allow your awareness to settle into your tailbone. Take a deep breath and imagine a beautiful garden. Place in your garden all of your heart's desire. This is a garden of your own making. Everything in the garden, is something you love. There are no limits. Take 30 seconds to feel the peace and comfortable of your perfect place. When you have felt the peace within you, set the intention to bring this peace back with you from your garden. Open your eyes.

The above exercise can be done anytime you are feeling out of sorts. I suggest doing this a couple of times a day and notice at the end of the day how you feel. Do you feel more refreshed? Did your day go more smoothly?

Learn more exercises like this during the Success Support Program.

Finding Your Support -- How JetBlue Loosing My Luggage Taught Me About Support

An ex-boyfriend and I use to have the same argument again and again. It went a little like this:

Jennifer: "I feel like you don't support me."
Ex-boyfriend: "I support you by..." (and then he would list all the ways he felt he supported me).

What I didn't realize then was, we were both right. This concept of feeling support in relationships is a funny thing. Mainly, because support means different things to different people. What I find so interesting about the feeling of being unsupported, is that feeling will seep into every aspect of your life.

This was very apparent on Saturday. As I sat at Westchester Airport, no luggage in hand and looking at the empty baggage belt. Besides wondering where my luggage with all my favorite bits and pieces was, I was wondering how I can change from feeling unsupported to supported. I understood, if I was going to to Unsupported Town because of lost luggage well...

I know that every experience is a chance for me to learn to be more consciously in my soul and become more part of the Universal flow. That's when the words support beam popped into my head.

A support beam is a beam that is supported at each end, and the load is then distributed along its length. If you remove it, the wall or building falls down. I believe this is how we view support in our lives; especially in relationships. Relationships can't be your support beam. You need to be your own beam. You need to find what will help you distribute the load. Once you embrace this concept, what happens is relationships will strengthen that beam. Sort of like the nails in your beam of support.

With this new understanding of support, I asked myself what beliefs were at each end of my beam to distribute this load. Below is the exercise I created in order to create my new beam of support.

Please note that you will need a pen and paper. Sit in a comfortable chair and let your awareness focus on your tailbone. Take a deep breath and ask yourself the following question:

What is a belief that keeps your support beam standing?

What was your answer? The answer that I received to this question was: courage. This of course, fits nicely with my Soul Language the Graceful Warrior.

When you are starting to feel unsupported, that is the time to settle and feel that supportive belief.

Interested in learning more exercises about creating support in your life? Sign up NOW for my FREE* class, How to Create The Success and Support You Deserve, Tuesday, September 15th at 7:00 p.m. (eastern time).

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3 Ways to Accept Where YOU Are

One of the things that participants will learn during the Success Support Program is how to understand all of the 107 Soul Languages. Why would you want to know about another's Soul Language? Well, so you don't take things personally, so you can learn new skills, and to help you to feel that you are part of everything and everything is a part of YOU. I was able to access what I know about the Soul Language the Sextant for this tip. Again, you can learn more about the Sextant and Laura West below.

1. See How Far You Have Come?
Often when we feel lost, we forget how far we have come prior to this point. Today, break out the color pencils and create a beautiful map on how far you have come in your life. Make sure that you list all of your highlights, accomplishments and greatest. Taking the time to celebrate each win as you draw it on your map.

2. Where Do You Want to Go?
Do you feel lost because you are not sure where you want to go? Today, set the intention to receive just one new direction that you would like to travel in. Do not worry about how this knowledge will reveal itself to you, just set the intention and watch what happens.

3. Joyfully Step Ahead
Tomorrow, when you get out of bed and take your first 15 steps, take them with JOY. With each step state aloud, "I joyfully walk my path."

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You are Supported and Loved in Transition

The Keys of Grace Affirmation cards are a tool for you to connect with guidance easily. I fine them useful if I'm feeling I need a little reassurance or I'm not sure what's my next step. I love when I pull the The Gargoyle card. First, I love his friendly face and I know that even if it doesn't feel like it I'm being guided through my transition.

Each card has a focusing word and transition is The Gargoyle's. This card is about being protected and supported as you move from something smaller to something bigger. Another way to say that is that you are safe as you expand and accept your greatness.

The affirmation for this card, always fills me with a warm feeling -- I Am Being Guided By Love and Support. Set the intention over the next week that you witness how you are being loved and support.

According to, David Hawkins, "That which you resist stays." I think that is important to remember during transition times.

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